I was pondering the difficulty of working for the long term when short-term benefits seem to get in the way. By example, I am working on my weight (again) and this morning I had a choice between a high carb breakfast or a high protein breakfast. Now, if I'm taking the long view I choose the high protein breakfast (I did), however the short-term benefit of the taste of the much more delicious high carb breakfast was eating away at me (no pun intended).
This is a lot like most of our lives. We struggle between the short-term rewards and the long-term goals. Whether it's money, food, a job or a relationship (or any other aspect of life) it is very easy to succumb to the lure of the short-term reward. I feel good NOW by doing this versus taking a longer view and reaping a much greater benefit in the future. I know this is a difficulty for me. I'm sure it is for many.
So, the question is whether or not to withstand the short-term deprivation to foster the long-term goal. Some days I do, some I don't. I figure that if there are more days when I do, I'm ahead of the game.
As I see it, long-term goals tend to move my life in the direction I want to go while the short-term reward feels good in the moment but prolongs or even prevents achieving the long-term goal.
My advice? Take an extra couple of minutes to ponder the cost/benefit ratio before making the decision and hopefully you will make the choice that leads to long-term success.
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ReplyDeleteThe above post that was removed was me (SuZen), not Jude....Here is what I was going to say:
ReplyDeleteWhen people come to me in the clinic and discuss something that they would like to change but have trouble with backsliding, I tell them this...If they are doing whatever it is, then they should never do it absently - rather do it with the full awareness of the choice they are making. Enjoy the cigarette or chocolate, but do it with full conscious awareness. Make every step of it a conscious act, with full attention. That way, regret is not necessary because they did not sleep through any of it.
It has surprised me how well some folks have followed through (when they remembered to do so) and some have found that they do such things less.